I take a lot of Road Trips- and have since I was a kid… this is a list of gathered info.. some from other sites.. some from books but all from experiences!!
1. SHARE THE LOVE.. the love of DRIVING ! if you are trying to cover say 1000 miles in a 3 day weekend.. well that’s a lot of driving.. and it’s better to SHARE! Even if it is the 2 of you.. SHARE.. SWITCH.. The person driving is a better driver, more focused when they are the driver and it automatically gives you all a break! Growing up my dad did all of the driving on long distance trips.. but sometimes I think if he would have let someone else drive even for a little bit..well..maybe he would have some hair left.. maybe..

2. Roadworthy Wheels- I know we are all trying to save money so we tend to skimp, drive instead of fly, take our own car, change the oil less, put off the needed repair.. Again skimping is risking.. risking sitting in a small unknown reststop in I don’t know.. Nebraska… for your entire 3 day weekend.. you get the idea.. If you go with others make sure your wheels are road worthy before you roll out.. Have the car looked over,do the oil change, fill up the gas, fill up the tires.. be prepared. Or go rent.. split the cost and rent a car. Check out www.kayak.com for last minute car rental deals, use your AAA discount, even some Airline loyalty programs have discounts on rental cars.. ask.. what’s the worst answer they can tell you.. no.. Always ask for a better price! 
3. FOOD- yes.. seems kind of obvious but.. even if you pick up a rental car after you land.. first stop put some food into the car.. You have room, and you know you will get hungry.. don’t count on a road stop snack bar every time you get hungry.. WATER.. basic necessities, some CHOCOLATE- must have CHOCOLATE.. can calm many a frazzled nerve.. There are many stretchs of long empty roads where you won’t see a gas pump,vending machine or roadside fruit cart for miles.. trust me.. Crackers,cheese,peanuts,chocolate,a banana,some dried fruits, and plenty of water.

4. PAPER.. as in PAPER MAPS! don’t rely just on your GPS.. PAPER MAP is always a good back-up and can be reviewed when you keep going around the same loop,the same road looking for some motel, restaurant,gas station,big clock,best bargain stop or other amazing place that is supposed to be just RIGHT HERE !! This has happened.. we have all just about thrown “jeeves, or jinny out the window.. as they keep repeating .. make a u turn.. your destination is on the right only to be looking at a cow and an empty field.. trust me!
I often get ridiculed for bringing my map highlighted in 3 colors and a write out of have to get to point a and point b.. only to be pulling over and using it to find where I need to be or should have been an hour back… Having a dad work for the Department of Transportation sure taught me the value of reading a map.. and still using IT !

5. Stop and ASK.. yes I said it.. don’t be afraid to STOP and ASK.. well unless the place is dark.. the woman is holding a shot gun.. and well.. you get the idea.. Stop at a well lit open business,gas station, restaurant, or other reputable business.. or STOP and CALL and ASK.. that’s right.. pull over.. and ASK.. getting help finding your destination can SAVE a lot of TIME and AGGRAVATION! None of your passengers will think less of YOU.. in fact they may thank YOU,treat you with a DRINK, dessert or just give you that big THANKS for ASKING smile!

6. BATHROOM BREAKS- NEVER pass on a BATHROOM/TOILET opportunity.. even if you think you just used the bathroom… take the opportunity.. never count on the next one.. believe me .. you will thank me for this.. I have made myself incredibly uncomfortable praying to make it to the toilet … this ties in with the next tip… 
7. TISSUE-TOILET PAPER-TOWEL PAPER… something you can use for wiping up spills,emergency toilet paper,wipe a window.. use as a napkin.. you never know.. That bathroom may have a working toilet,but be out of paper.. or you have to just pull over.. and well.. paper.. Just because a reststop,gas station or wherever has a working toilet.. it may be out of PAPER…
8. STOP… S..T..T..O…P.. the “magic” word.. if someone says it .. the driver needs to respect it and Pull Off, Over or get off as soon as safely possible.. If someone needs a break,feeling queasy, bathroom or just needs to exercise the “trigger finger” (yes I travel with crazy shutterbugs.. camera toting types.. and well.. they must.. you know.. ). Set up the “rules” at the beginning of the trip.. 
9. MUSIC… bring your own,play the radio or… hmm.. SING… or don’t.. I think this is important to cover before getting into the CAR.. or other wheeled vehicle.. Maybe everyone brings a selection of tunes,knows their favorite XM station or likes to lead the sing-along.. We always let the driver choose.. tunes or no tunes.. and so forth.. best to keep the driver HAPPY !!
10. FOLLOW THE RULES.. that is NO TICKETS.. NO INCIDENTS.. have your companions help watch for the SPEED LIMIT SIGNS, no turn lane signs.. exit signs or whatever.. Everyone is involved.. and no one wants to spend their money paying for a speeding ticket,parking ticket or other kind of ticket. 
11. Shades and SUNSCREEN-Hat.. sun protection.. Even if you are in the car.. all day.. you are still going to be exposed to the harmful radiation of the sun.. yes that means sunburned skin.. Driving into the glare can be tiring.. Take your shades..even if the forecast is for gloomy, cloudy, overcast weather.. again.. none of us seems satisfied spending endless time perusing the gas station sunglass rack..
12. SHUT EYE.. SLEEP.. dozing..cat naps.. Even if you are trying to get someone cross country on a deadline,, and driving non-stop.. when you are not driving..take some shut eye.. especially if you are not staying in a real bed.. close your eyes and sleep. A short cat nap will revive you and make you a better driver and more enjoyable passenger!
13. Call Ahead.. Find the Highway Road Conditions Hotline number…
5-1-1- established in July 2000, 5-1-1 is the nationally designated number for traveler information- to access info before you travel consult that state’s Department of Transportation website or phone number.
California 1-800-427-7623
Iowa-1-800-288-1047
Arizona 1-888-411-ROAD
14. GAS.. fuel up before you hit E.. again.. don’t push it.. a wrong turn, an unplanned detour or worse and you will be in serious need of fuel.. don’t push it.. more stops..
Find out when you rent your car if you can pre-pay for a half tank or other portion instead of the full tank option. I just rented from Enterprise and was happy to find out I could just pay for half a tank and bring the car back with half a tank full. Keep your tank filled.. this also gives everyone a chance to get out,stretch your legs,bathroom breaks and more!!
15. Have FUN !! Remember Mark Twain’s quote… “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. SO throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails EXPLORE. DREAM. DISCOVER !!”
Bring some fun.. your car games, your sing along songs.. your crazy stories and a camera for some fun road trip pictures!! 